While all healthy relationships require a lot of give and take, they aren’t meant to be about keeping score. But recently I’ve found that both my friends and I have become a lot more frugal: where we used to split dinner bills equally without quibbling over who ordered a large wine and who ordered a small, today we have meticulous Notes app lists detailing every last one of our petty debts.

In recent years, it feels as though friendships are becoming increasinglyhellip;

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